I can fully see your point on changing the normal answer of "buy better whatever" but it truly is one answer once you get to a certain point, you must buy better either to compete or just improve against yourself and move your own goal/bar of standard.
Now that doesn't mean you should always push that as the only correct answer onto others when they ask a question. There are tons of things to learn and improve on yourself before "buy better" is the only way up a step.
I was serious about the listing I would be interested to see you do BUT I don't expect much improvement to show, I was just giving you something to do challenge as long as you were going down that rabbit hole. As for others stomping on your idea, that's just their way of saying done that, been there, nothing more to see move along advice.
It's your time, do what you want, i just mention what I thought were good sets to look into to round it out more. As for bringing others into this, the more the better, it would help you and him/her keep busying and enjoy each other company while doing it, that's great!
Looking a gift horse in the mouth is not good, if you give something just feel good that you can afford to give no matter the real value. Some will appreciate it for what it is but some won't. Don't let it stop you from the enjoyment of giving, those that appreciate it might even pass it forward when they can.
Good Luck and stay positive! :bthumb: