I learned a how to do a lot of things intentionally just so I'd never have to rely on anyone to do them for me. Now I know how to do a bunch of crap that a lot of people rely on me to do. I think there's some irony there somewhere.
Thanks for the offer!!, I may hunker dow and semi-hide, since my wife passed, my daughter has given up her normal routine, to for what it seems to babysit me. I don’t really care about holidays, I want her and the grandkids to enjoy themselves, not be burdened by me. I’d really prefer seeing them on the weekend before or after. Her staying home cooking because of me, seems a bit too much.